OMG! I don't know what it is about sites that lure people in like fish and set them up for more diappointment or false hopes! I came here hoping to be helped and give help in return but as I peruse through the many post(s) and site itself I see a lot of asking and not much help in return and if there is help, it's either on rash replies or comments to someone's post or embedded on the lefthand column with "Paid For" advertisements that cost the individual??? go figure! as the old adage goes "It takes money to make money". something most of us don't have in the first place!
Maybe it's just that I haven't been here for long as some may have been but there sure are a lot of hands out in the "Empty Pot" and this my friends is not what makes a very good, reliable place to come for help or answers.
Let me apologize and justify my statement to the FEW that may have found the "Light at the end of the Tunnel" or "Pot 'O' Gold" for what this site may have brought them. I'm not here to bash this site in anyway what so ever! Au Contriare, like I said earlier...I am like MOST of you...here for answers, guidance, semblance and most of all, faith in the system and in return, to give back the knowledge, answers and guidance received.
I am came here to find alternate answers or suggestions to finding possible grants for my daughter wishing to continue her edumacation in Culinary Arts! Yes, I misspelled a few wurds hea and dea and may-be my punctuations, are, not! as they should? be?? Does that really matter? Should it? "Help!" is the general concensus here, not anyone replying to someone's post just to correct them in {their} spelling no matter who they are or what their purpose is in the first place. Pleasantries out the door! Where has society taken us when we start nit-picking on meaningless and non-life altering or treatening issues like someones' spellin' or punc!
Want to make yourself feel good about something? Try posting something positive like:
-$4000 Grant for Students Having Trouble Paying Tuition @ www.ed.gov/offices/OSFAP , If you are working on your first undergraduate degree and are having trouble paying for bills contact Federal Supplemental Education Opportunity Grants.
-$30,000 To Study the Humanities @ www.neh.gov
-Money for Spouses and Children of Deceased or Disabled Veterans to go to School (Survivors and Dependants Educational Assitance) @ www.va.gov .
Information is the key that unlocks many doors. try that sometimes! I'm sure it'll have you feeling much better about yourself in the long term.
And the best part about the information I posted above.... if you haven't noticed... unlike the WWW that is full of Hidden Fees or Upfront Cost to apply for these programs, there is none associated with them, you just need to know where to look for the same information these websites charge you for in the first place. no middleman here!
For those of us that are not familiar with how the search engines work, sit back and let me edumacate ya. You see there is a cost to be at the top of the search engine results page! Oh yes, it's called "Pay Per Click" in other terms or words, they pay to be put there on the popular search engines like G88GLE, YOoHOO etc. It is marketing at it's best because 9 out of 10 you're going to click in to see what it or they have to say right? and like most car dealers or salesman & women in general see and understand, getting you in the lot or store is winning the first part of their battle, strategy, plot or what-have-you. Then feed you the hook by putting in the headlines of their link, FREE, NO MONEY or whatever tactic they use to get you to "IMPLUSIVELY" click....(the key word). We are by nature, Impulsive creatures! (to a point, and some more than others) and it's used so frequently because statistics and studies on human nature dictate we will out of either curiousity or hope or compulsion or even all three! Be Careful, because with these big top "Pay Per Click" sites, most have implanted what is called, tracking cookies, spybots and so on... placed there so it follows you by digging in to your systems waiting for you to move on and track your where- abouts and in doing so knowingly still waiting in the weeds for you to put your email address somewhere else then GOTCHA! here's your spam! Are you ready for your Spam Samich? ever wondered why you're now getting emails on stuff you don't even recall ever looking at? Oh, they'll still try to get you to that "FREE INFORMATION" page that you once viewed for like- say 30 seconds even though you knew what they were about??? but this time the emails frequently come to you as "Specail Offer to YOU and for ONLY YOU Mr or MRS.Unsuspecting!"
Again, don't open them! another disguise and surprise is waiting just for YOU! yes, a "LOCKED IN" cookie! that will find it's way into third, fouth, fifth etc etc. handlers or spammers and all sold as to them as potential candidate for stuff you just don't need or care about and unrelated to what you were searching for in the first place...FINDING HELP! One thing you can bet on is that they are and will be unrelenting to help you...part with your money or the money you don't have! Nice thing that some of us have credit cards to help us in these tough times...ALL linked together...funny how tis all works huh?
Like I mentioned, Be Very Careful, Cautious and Vigilant in your efforts to find the answers you seek and always remember, very, very seldom will you find someone willing to help you for nothing i.e. something for nothing...there's always a catch waiting somewhere down the line. oh yeah, and my catch?? is that if anyone knows of a grant, scholarship etc. to help my daughter earn a degree in Culinary Arts and Management or to help me curve the cost please let me know....Mahalo much! Nahea
BTW, I have more information that may help. If you have a particular need please send me a post, reply or email and I will try to see if my book of wisdom can help direct us all in the right direction. I can't promise much but hey, we all gotta start somewhere???
If you were wondering:
I am a recently Retired U.S. Naval Civil Engineer (SEABEE) and Combat Veteran that has seen this world twice over. I have been sent to support areas that have been devastated by Hurricanes -Hugo/Andrew/Iniki/ Katrina, Tsunami in Indonesia, Fires of Malibu, Ca. (several), Earthquakes of San Fransico and Northridge Ca., Evacuation of Military Personnel from Subic Bay/Cubi Point Naval Base and Clark Air Force Base and rebuilding of Subic Bay, Philippines., Construction for Haiti's 20K + Political Refugee's Camp Located in Guantanamo Bay Cuba., Desert Shield & Storm/Kuwait., Kosovo , Somalia, and Iraq Campaigns. Long list of humanitrian and voluntary missions. Originally from the Hawaiian Islands and a Native Son to it that have and has done a fair share for our country. No need for gratitudes or praise...just doing what I believe is the right thing to do. I now make my home in Illinois which is a long ways from the life and ways of living I once knew as a child. The "Aloha" spirit is still part of my life and is promoted in my travels and as I meet new people... and if I can help anyone, it's done without need of compensation or reward....well, maybe a simple "thanks" is all that I need. Aloha Nui Loa & Take Care